There are all sorts of gifts for dad on Father's Day -- shirts and ties and books and coffee mugs and golf balls -- and many of us have already spent money on the stuff we can wrap up and deliver or mail off to dad on this special day. But some gifts -- the ones we can't wrap up -- have an appeal that is priceless because they focus on the moment, they build relationships, and they promote mental and physical health. And here are just seven simple but everlasting gifts to consider sharing with dad on this Father's Day.Roses are Red, Violets are Blue
Consider writing a poem for dad -- just a few lines to let him know you admire him, to capture a fond memory, or to reveal your appreciation for all he has done for you. Drop it in the mailbox, send it through e-mail, or call dad and read it aloud. Your words might just warm his heart, lift his spirits, and bring a smile to his face. And a copy of the poem can be saved and treasured forever. Adults can help kids write their own personalized poems -- which can be embellished with scribbles and drawings. Be sure to date the poem so dad can look back and recall the specific day you shared your prose with him.
I love my dad because . . .
Write down a few phrases with dad in mind and then complete your thoughts -- I love my dad because . . . or my dad's greatest accomplishment is . . . or my dad has taught me . . . Like with the poem, find the best method for getting this gift to dad so he can cherish it for years to come. Adults -- you can help your kids do this too.
A walk in the park
If you live close to dad, invite him for a walk -- in a park, in your neighborhood, in a place where nature can calm and soothe you both. While strolling, chat about life with dad -- and find a moment to let him know how you feel about him. Recall childhood memories, recent memories, plans for future time spent together. Soak up the beauty of the outdoors, breathe the air, and let all worries wash away as you enjoy this slice of life with dad. Adults can organize a family walk for dad and kids and can help focus the conversation.
Project togetherness
Plan and execute a project with dad -- adults can help kids get started -- that allows for time spent in a productive manner. Teamwork, communication, physical activity, and a sense of accomplishment can all result from this labor of love. Build a birdhouse, perhaps, and then hang it in the yard and watch how this gift benefits not only you and dad -- but nature too.
Time began in a garden
How about planting a garden -- small, medium or large -- with the intention of bonding with dad and starting a healthy eating regimen too. Plant fruits and vegetables, tend to their development, watch them grow, and then reap the benefits of eating from the earth. You might start a flower garden too and watch the progress of colorful blooms that can brighten your days.
A blockbuster extravaganza
For indoor fun, honor dad with a movie night -- complete with his favorite flicks and his favorite healthy snacks. Join him for the event -- or from a distance, provide the means to make this time for a little rest and relaxation happen. Tell dad the night is all about him.
You, dad, and a starry night
With your backs on the grass and your eyes pointed toward space, delight in the wonder of the nighttime sky by watching the stars with dad. Talk about what you see, wish upon some stars, discuss your hopes and dreams, and let your bodies rest and refresh as the stars twinkle from above. If you and dad can't do this together, you can both find a spot in the grass and chat on the phone while you both look at the same sky from different locations.
My husband is enjoying his Father's Day gift right now. He and our oldest child -- Joey, age five -- are at the beach where they are playing in the sand, jumping in the waves, and catching fish. A wrapped gift would have done the trick -- and has been our staple for most of the past five years -- but a little quality time, a little physical activity, and a little mental peace make for a Father's Day I know both father and son will never forget.










